Heal Childhood Trauma : The Self-Nurturing Therapy Approach to Better Adult Relationships - Julie Gowthorpe

Heal Childhood Trauma : The Self-Nurturing Therapy Approach to Better Adult Relationships - Julie Gowthorpe

Julie Gowthorpe

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Published 23 November 2026

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  • Pages · 256 pages
  • Publication Date · 23/11/2026
  • Genre · Family psychology
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Reclaim your sense of safety, security, and connection. Learn how to soothe the inner child still guarding against pain, so you can finally build the relationships-and the peace-you deserve. From fear to connection: Heal your inner child and thrive in relationships. Early trauma can quietly shape every relationship we form as adults, creating disconnection where we long for closeness. In Heal Childhood Trauma, psychotherapist, speaker, and coach Dr. Julie Gowthorpe explains how childhood and adolescent experiences establish lasting relational patterns-and how to change them. Drawing on her evidence-based Self-Nurturing Therapy (SNT) framework, which integrates attachment theory and mindfulness-based cognitive approaches, Dr. Gowthorpe guides readers through reflective exercises, meditations, and case studies from her clinical practice. This step-by-step process helps readers soothe the "unsoothed" inner child, rebuild trust and emotional safety, and interrupt cycles of dysfunction in all kinds of relationships. With warmth and professional insight, Heal Childhood Trauma empowers readers to transform fear, vulnerability, and self-doubt into secure, fulfilling connections.

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